7.12.07

期待

不好了,那種感覺又回來了......有點若有所失,又充滿期待,期待什麼時候我的電話會再帶來那人的短訊。怕那短訊沒有問題可讓再我回覆,回覆了又怕那人不再回覆,那我便不知如何把話題延續下去。

一切尚言之過早,腦袋叫自己冷靜冷靜冷靜,不要輕易就豁出去;但心卻按捺不住,早已飛到老遠。

這就是轉了一份沒有以前般忙的公司的代價嗎?

深呼吸,集中精神,努力工作!

19 則留言:

卡臣 提到...

係妳就係妳, 唔係妳都唔使強求.
太刻意反而弄巧成拙
隨心而行吧!

VC 提到...

不同意Carson,機會是要爭取的,尤其是好男人往往是較被動的!

一生人見不了多少個合意的人呀!

Unknown 提到...

唉..."好男人往往是較被動的!"
真有那麼多好男人嗎?

hey!蠻人,有冇開facebook呢?覆我msg呀!唔該!

VC 提到...

"真有那麼多好男人嗎?"

Jay,

有!

只是不包又要好,同時又英俊、有品味、又成熟又浪漫又呢樣又果樣…

再者,就係少先要快手珍惜!

南蠻人 提到...

VC,
"一生人見不了多少個合意的人" 對呀! 有合意的又不一定available...不過有人話太主動又好似唔係幾好,個男仔會覺得你好cheap(真的嗎?)..都唔知點好.

Jay,
很高興你留言呢!好男人不需要多,能給我遇上一個就夠啦!另已覆你Facebook啦,sorry不能來了,我現在搞個展覽搞到想哭...

Carson,
我和那個人已吃過一次飯,希望會有第二次啦!

VC 提到...

No, Not Cheap at All. Take initiative!

especially you're so busy, you can't affort waste any time any chances any more.

do remember "好男人往往是較被動的" & 手快有 手慢無。

VC 提到...

P.S. Do not waste any tiny little bit piece of time on the unavilable men.

南蠻人 提到...

VC,
Thanks so much for your advice. But I have to use some time to check out this...

Unknown 提到...

有第一次就好快有第二次啦!!努力呀!!

VC:
"只是不包又要好,同時又英俊、有品味、又成熟又浪漫又呢樣又果樣…"

人就是貧心的動物。。。
我想我都遇到好的了,同時又英俊、有品味;
只是不夠成熟、不夠浪漫、不夠體貼...又被動!!

VC 提到...

Jay, congratulations.

then start plan for your wedding la. you're 25, right?

do remember, don't insist on buying property, rental is perfectly Ok.

南蠻人 提到...

VC,

Btw, I remember once there was a friend told me that he is MBA - Married but available..it's really hard to define what is unavailable nowadays.

VC 提到...

"Do not waste any tiny little bit piece of time on the unavailable men."

MBA = unavailable!
don't be silly, even gay is better than MBA!

availabe = unmarried or divorced
Not hard to define at all!

南蠻人 提到...

VC,

Of course I know. But everyone has different interpretation. I've learnt lesson and am not young anymore, I won't waste any of my time doing silly things.

Gay isn't better, being single can be quite good and free actually.

VC 提到...
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VC 提到...

but are you strong enough to have baby without marriage?

南蠻人 提到...

HAHA...I guess we have mis-understanding. I prefer to be single rather than fall into a wrong relationship. So it is impossible for me to have baby without getting married.

VC 提到...

No, no mis-understanding at all.

What I want to say is:

you should focus on looking for a man for building family which is for baby coming.

contrast to looking for LOVE without purpose.

(ha ha, i'm very old-fashioned)

南蠻人 提到...

"contrast to looking for LOVE without purpose"...Love itself is the purpose and essential I'm looking for in a relationship.

Without love support in a relationship, marriage and building family will only leads to misfortune ending. That's not I want.

I'm also an old fashioned person, I want to have a long lasting relationship that can keep growing.

VC 提到...

"I want to have a long lasting relationship that can keep growing." I agree 100%, this is a good purpose.

then do find "Love" in this manner in our real world.

and do avoid "Romantic Love" trap.